Clothes Swap–a Roaring Success!

June 21st, 2009

As you know, I recently participated in a clothing swap at the Black Box Collective, which is in the West Central neighborhood, near the Parramore community, which also happens to be where I work.

I went to the clothes swap with the following:  Three pairs of jeans, a leather Kenneth Cole jacket that was a weird color and boxy and I never wore it, a polyester suit, two skirts, a tank top, and a dress.  I didn’t put all of it out on the pile, I don’t know why.  I wasn’t really ready to part with the dress and there wasn’t anyone else there that it would have suited, and I guess I jsut wasn’t ready to let it go.  One of the skirts in my bag I kept because I keep hoping I will find a top to wear with it, but I’ve had it fifteen years and worn it only once, so I probably should have passed it on.

I went there by myself, though, and I didn’t know anyone, so I felt conspicuous and didn’t want to be rifling around in my bag and then not putting stuff out on the tables, so I just put some stuff out and then didn’t go back into my bag.  Dumb, I know.  Anyhow, all told, I gave the leather jacket, the suit, and three pairs of pants.  I should have also put out one of the skirts and the tank top, but oh well.

It was a rally nice vibe they had going, there was an acoustic guitarist playing her own original music and singing, and I really liked both her voice and her music.  I don’t remember her name, so if anyone reading this knows her name, I’ll gladly give credit.  I’d make a crummy reporter, I guess.  Here’s a picture of her:

"All in favor of a new world, say I"

"All in favor of a new world, say I"

Yes, I know there is a lot of uninteresting background in the picture.  I need to learn more about cropping and editing photos, but I usually do it in Paint and I just can’t seem to make it happen this morning.  It’s like, rilly rilly giant, and I can’t crop out the part I want because even that doesn’t fit on the screen, and it won’t let me zoom out.  I might be retarded.  Nonetheless,  there was music and camaraderie.  I learned that they were planning on sending the leftover clothes to India, and since you know and I know that dumping excess textiles in poverty stricken areas is not always as helpful over the long term as we think it might be, I started asking around about who was in charge and had made this decision.  I got to meet a few nice people that way, including Sheena, who gave me props because my Daddy is a Union man.  While Sheena and I talked about how the problem of workers not being able to afford the products of their labor exists right here in this neighborhood (moreso even than the textile industry in India, for comparison), an apparently homeless man walked in off the street.  He rather nervously approached where we were standing and asked if all the clothes were girl clothes.  It felt good to direct him to where some men’s clothes were and convey a feeling of welcome.

I did some of my own browsing and scored a yellow message tee with a bird

embroidered on it that goes with my picnic shoes, a J Crew skirt for work, a short demin skit for kicking around in (that just so happens to be from Abercrombie and Fitch, no less), and this crazy plaid dress thing.  It will look awesome with tights and ankle boots this fall.yearwithoutshopping-0171

When I did get to talk to one of the organizers, Alex, she heard me out about how our overconsumption of textiles leads to the depression of prices for all textile related trades and industries, if not their outright destruction, in the places where our excess ends up.  She informed me that they had a specific contact in India to whom they were sending the clothes, but that shipping was pretty pricey and they only planned to ship a few boxes.  This is where I piped up with the needs of families right in that very community, some of whom I work with, that can’t always clothe their children the way they would like to.  The school I work in has a free clothes closet for kids to shop in, no questions asked, and I asked Alex if maybe I could have some of the leftovers.  She was super pleased because the Black Box Collective wants to participate in and be part of the community it’s housed in, and this is one way they can do that.

I agreed to meet Sheena the following day to bag up what I thought the kids could use and would like, and one of my co-workers met me there.  We spent an hour helping ourselves to the goods and also folding, bagging, and moving all the rest of it.  That day, I found a pair of grey skinny jeans with ankle zips, which was super awesome because I’d wanted some last fall and had been browsing the internet in search of the right ones.  So it was cool that I found some for FREE–well, I paid in labor.

All told, it was a super positive experience.  I met some great people, got some “new” clothes, and did a good deed for my kids.  I also talked to some activists about the effects of our voracious appetite for clothes and, in a sense, educated them a little about something they hadn’t considered.

The First Day of the Rest of this Year

April 20th, 2009

This is the last article of clothing I bought.

This is the last article of clothing I bought.

I wanted to start this blog on Easter, which would have been symbolic, in an ironic way.  Perhaps in a predictive way. 

I tend to procrastinate; I have lots of big ideas, but few of them actually make it into the air, and even fewer of them have actually flown.  To quote Commander Lightyear, it’s more “falling with style.”  Even my best ideas usually find themselves stifled between the pages of this notebook or that journal or soaked under a cold drink on one of the business reply envelopes a good friend taught me to see as free scrap paper.  So I am just getting around to what really should have been done a week ago.   Typical!

What I am doing here is part experiment, maybe part statement, all hopeful ambition, and may evolve (devolve?) into performance art. 

What will it be like to go a whole year, 365 days starting now, without buying clothes for myself? 

I don’t have a “problem” with shopping.  I have less than $1500 in credit card debt, I own my home, my car is paid off, I have a chunk of money in a retirement account, and money in savings.  In fact, I love clothes, if not always shopping itself, and I read fashion mags and know the season’s dos and don’ts.

So why do it?  All I’m going to do is drive myself crazy, right?  Maybe.                    

Do you know what happens to the clothes we middle classers cast off?  First of all, only a small percent of the clothes we give away in this country are actually worn out.  I’d guess that’s equally true in other developed countries with substantial middle classes.  Those clothes make their way down through the ranks, out through the hind end of Goodwill and the Salvation Army and eventually into giant bales of aid sent to Africa.  What it does there is depress the value of cotton, and render farming textile crops or weaving fabric exercises in humility and futility.  It takes away the potential livelihoods of those people who would be traditionally occupied as dressmakers and shopkeepers.  It allows land to go uncultivated in the most rapidly spreading patch of desert in the world.

On the other end of its production, it employs women in Asia at slave wages, and keeps children from school to do piecework for a pittance.  Some clothing manufacturers foul the environment around them, (in addition to their workers) with dyes and solvents while they’re making our clothes out of plastic.  These companies have moved to cities we don’t know how to pronounce in countries we know from National Geographic because there are few regulations, the labor is cheap and disorganized, and do they really need another reason?

So there’s that, but really, I just want to know if I can do it.  Any woman who enjoys getting dressed would find it a struggle.  I wonder how I’ll feel when I really want something different to wear.  I wonder if I’ll have ideas about different things, or what I will do with the energy and time I currently spend reading about, looking at, and thinking about clothes.  That’s what I want to write about.  I wonder how creative I will get as I try to adapt to stay current, if that will carry over into other parts of my life.  I wonder how out of style I will look and feel in a year, and what I might learn about myself.

I’ll post pictures everyday, so that there will be a record of what a whole year with no new clothes looks like.

Next:  What are the rules?